Locus of Control

You're so selfish and stubborn that you continually fail to recognize and admit the error of your ways, even when I make the truth evident to you. You altogether deny your voluntary involvement in the decisions which guide your life. You disregard the existence of free will; no one made you do (or not do) anything.

When you're engaged in positive outcomes, you're quick to take credit for them.

But when the results are negative, your perspective drastically changes.

You always believe it happened to me, rather than how did I cause this to happen?

Although you obviously have agency, you act like you don't have power over your own actions and their consequences. You refuse to accept responsibility for your choices; you have an external locus of control. You are more than just a hopeless victim of your circumstances, a helpless product of your environment. And until you ponder and reform that particular aspect of your personality, you will forever remain naive and immature.