"Life isn't black and white. It's a million gray areas, don't you find?" - Ridley Scott, Award-Winning Film Director
Generally speaking, adopting a perspective that portrays one person/group as the sole perpetrator and one person/group as the sole victim is both disingenuous and unfair to the party which gets vilified. There are exceptions to this rule, of course. For instance, serial killers (of reasonably sound mind) who randomly select innocent people to torture, rape, and murder obviously don't fit the criteria for inclusion in the partially-culpable category; they deserve 100% of the blame for their heinous and deplorable actions. However, in most cases, blame deserves to be shared between both parties. Often times, because one party is more responsible than the other, fault should not be distributed equally among individuals. For example, morally speaking, infidelity and domestic violence are both wrong. And in another example, legally speaking, jaywalking and driving while intoxicated are both wrong. But any rational person can conclude that, in each example, the latter of the two is consi...