No Risk, No Reward

I know you see your presence as an immense burden on my shoulders, but I don't see you that way. I consider you an asset, not a liability.

Furthermore, in regard to the desire you expressed to part ways, shouldn't my preferences be involved in that decision too? Because I'd rather strive to make this friendship work than to concede without a decent attempt. I realize I've already said this, but I'm willing and able to assume the risks associated with our friendship. And that's because, in my opinion, the probability of a favorable outcome exceeds the probability of an adverse outcome. Still, I recognize the condition of most outcomes is not so straightforward. Regardless, I sincerely think the positive aspects more than offset the negative aspects.

Plus, if I end up getting hurt, it wouldn't be fair to blame yourself. I was aware of the potential dangers when I voluntarily chose to become involved with you. In spite of my reassuring statements, I understand you still may very well accept responsibility for my foolishness anyway. And I can live with that kind of unnecessary self-reproach. Just remember I will always be here to comfort you when you're having doubts about yourself, as long as you allow me to be.

Moreover, don't you think it's better to have an optimistic outlook than a pessimistic one? If you think you're going to fail from the very start, aren't you less likely to succeed? Psychology refers to the aforementioned phenomenon as the self-fulfilling prophecy. Bear in mind I am communicating this idea to you as a self-proclaimed cynic.

Besides, if we instantly refuse to take any serious risks, how can we properly enjoy all the exciting rewards life has to offer?